Beat Procrastination, Once and For All!
Everyone experiences
procrastination from time to time. Some people are chronic procrastinators,
while others claim they work better under pressure. It's not about being lazy
but often people run out of time or take on too many projects. Some of the
things we never get around to doing are boring, difficult, overwhelming, and
complicated. Most people procrastinate due to feeling overwhelmed.
Like
many things, procrastination is a habit, and habits can be broken and retrained.
Are you one of the millions who procrastinate. English actor Christopher Parker
said, `Procrastination is like a credit card: It's a lot of fun until you get
the bill.'
1. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Divide big
projects into smaller more manageable pieces. The first key is to break down
projects. This can be at home or at work. For example you are given an
assignment to write a 400 page novel. For the majority of people this would seem
like a daunting task. But what if we re-worded the project and it asked you to
write a page a day for a week, a month, or a year? To most people, that would be
a lot less overwhelming.
2. Write it down. This can be listed in no
particular order and will give you a handle on just what you need to accomplish.
A calendar (with plenty of room for notes) is a useful way to schedule short and
long term goals. Often it is easier to start with the worst task.
3.
Schedule priority items. One useful way to schedule items in order of priority
is to use deadlines. For example if you have a 5 page paper to write, scheduling
to work on a page each day from 6:00 until 7:00 each night from Monday until
Friday for one week will allow you to finish your paper on time. This can apply
to many other items as well, such as paying bills or writing a proposal for
work.
4. During scheduled times, do what was scheduled. Often people will
avoid working on the priority by cleaning their closet which hasn't been done in
7 years or washing dishes or even walls--anything to avoid the priority
item.
5. Schedule in breaks and rewards. One form of a break might be
relaxing or meditating for 3-5 minutes between work sessions. Others enjoy more
social relaxation such as a movie, TV, phone call, a date or a trip to a coffee
shop. While others enjoy a walk or some exercise, others may enjoy a food or
drink treat such as chocolate. Others may enjoy some music, a new item of
clothing or a book. Yet others may enjoy a bubble bath, flowers, or candles.
Leisure time or time doing a hobby or taking a trip may also be a satisfying
reward.
6.
Find yourself an accountability partner, someone to help monitor your progress.
Tell them your plans and continue to tell them as you proceed. Another
accountability option is to send email messages to yourself asking for progress
reports and reminding yourself of important tasks to do. Sometimes your
accountability partner can be used to help delegate tasks to others.
7.
Try to set realistic goals for yourself and your time. There are only 24 hours a
day and at least 7 of those you should be sleeping. That would leave you with 17
hours. Use your time consistently.
8. Be honest with your self about how
much you can do. Learn how to say `no' if you are unable to take on a task.
People need to prioritize and do the most important tasks first.
9. Make
a to-do list and include time approximations for how long each part will take.
Always add in extra time for the unexpected or interruptions. What if you have
to run to the store for more ink while printing your term paper? Did you allow
yourself an extra hour buffer before class starts?
10. Don't be too hard
on yourself. The more stressed or worried about what you have to do, the less
likely you are to do your work. Concentrate on your strengths and develop a `can
do' attitude.
11. Don't be a perfectionist. It doesn't always have to be
done perfect, just do it! Go on--admit that you have some fears and anxieties
about your ability to get the job done! It isn't all or nothing.
10 Steps to Effective Networking
1. Know your business, and know it well
2. Be able to describe what you do in a few clear sentences
3. Know what you want and need from networking
4. Be selective. Find out where you need to go to meet the people you want to meet, and make a point of getting there.
5. Understand how networking works; it's a relationship that you build over time.
6. Act as an "Ambassador of Goodwill" whenever you attend an event or meeting. Circulate! Meet everyone you possibly can, and involve yourself in conversation.
7. Think Give, not Get.
8. Listen actively to other people.
9. Follow up with contacts promptly by telephone or letter.
10. Stay in touch.